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Confidence just means having the guts to approach and talk to her and then following up - if you have a great conversation then have the confidence to ask her out (not telling her she will go out with you). Have the confidence to call her when you say you will. Whenever you talk about what she will do for you that comes across as arrogant and controlling. And make the discussion more about her than yourself by asking her questions to get to know who she is.