Most Helpful Girl
I'm not sure how much of a "player" we think you are more than we think it may be unrealistic for us to have a shot with you OR that many girls are attracted to you and we don't feel like trying to vie for your attention. Guys who exude confidence paired with attractiveness almost automatically attract women. We could assume that you are or have been with a lot of girls, just because we see your attractiveness (behavior and physically). Many guys in your position may take advantage of that position.
I apologize to you from ladies who have misconstrued you and your actual feelings. That isn't right. I think I am guilty of these assumptions sometimes. It's awesome that you are calling the status quo of these assumptions into question.
However, I think that one thing to remember is that as ladies, we are just trying to protect our hearts and ourselves from hurt, which we may have seen at the hands of attractive and confident men in the past. So, just show me your character and show me the honorable man that you are :)