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"i had meet this girl at a bar a few months back and developed a friendship with her and saw her there a bunch of times. but then all of a sudden she just like stopped coming out and i had no idea why till yesterday. "
^so did she tell u y she disappeared?
" i decided to try and add her on twitter , i couldn't see her profile as it was set to private so i sent her a tweet and a request and she added me back."
^did u tell her who u were? anyway if u did and she added u back... i guess it'sa very good sign... :)
" i saw from her posts she commented she missed the bar and had 2 jobs now so that might explain where she was. "
^aha... now i see y she's been away... she had a reason and she sounds real in my opinion... after all she can't afford goin to da bar if she works as well... ;)
"i though there might be another guy but no posts about one."
^nope... i don't think someone who has 2 works could afford seein a guy as well... unless if it was happenin infrequently like once per 1-2 weeks... so not "serious"...
"so now i'm not sure where to try and take things , i also saw that i missed her birthday in early August too."
^nm... i guess she didn't go mad coz u forgot her b-day.. right? so forget about it.. :)
" i'm torn where to take things as she's too busy to even come out but is still single but i'm not looking for an email pen pal"
^bettr leave her in my opinion since she has 2 jobs now... she wants to focus on 'em... if she wants to come at da bar i believe she'll do on her own... after all she says she's missin it... :)