Guys, I came on too strong, now what?
What Guys Said 1
"So, I started talking to this guy and right away we had instant chemistry. Ironically, we shared a class together in middle school so it was great to catch up."
^so how did u approach him (or he approached u) since u knew each other before in middle school?
"I didn't hear anything from him and I didn't think anything of it because I figured he was busy."
^did he read it at least then?
" I again tried calling Friday with no such luck and sent him a text Sunday telling him I hoped everything was okay. By this point I knew he was avoiding me based off of his social media activity. "
^so u say he was being active in SM but he was ignorin yer texts/calls? he has his reasons then... but those reasons r not good possibly i believe...
"That Monday I sent him a message through social media so I could know it was recieved.. basically eplaining if he wasn't interested or busy that I understood, but that keeping a line of communication open was important. Naturally he read it and did not reply.. "
^then i believe there's no point in tryin to reach him... he won't respond anyway as it seems... so i beleive it'd be better to ignore him for now and let him respond when he wants... of course this means u shouldn't cling on this guy... better move on if he keeps on ignorin u... ;)
"What's weird is that we're still friends on social media/he still follows me on social media. In highns sight I know I came on too strong just based off of the curcumstances."
^maybe he's not much into SM so he considers removin u from there an unimportant thing i believe... so he won't do it at all..
"He had been in a two year relationship that led to engagement which was recently broken off in June. Of course I can tell that he was super into me, but even so I KNOW that that's what got him to back off. "
^in this june? so he broke-up recently... he still didn't get over it totally then... ;)
"I'd like to start things slow again off as friends, but I know if there's any possibility of communicating with him again that I NEED to back off and lay low."
^as i said it'd be better to ignore him and not initiate any further contact... wait for him to initiate since as it seems he won't respond to yer texts u send...
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