I'm a black girl who prefers dating white guys and my aunty dissaproves. It make me think what happens when I tell my parents. I have no idea if they'll be okay with it.
Most Helpful Guy
Who cares about your relatives opinion? Date who you want to. They're the ones who have a problem, not you. It just shows how racism is not exclusive to white people...1
Most Helpful Girl
Aunty may Not Know best, @Chuckles007, but even so, it is just One Opinion so far coming from One family member so take it for what it is worth and just show her respect by saying to Her "Thanks for your opinion, I will remember this."
Everyone has a Preference in who they Prefer Dating.
I married a Muslim man out in Egypt and Prefer Arabs, even Foreign Guys to White Guys. I have been with many a man of this color but now my tastes have turned to an animal of another color and that is My Choice, no one else's.
If mom and dad don't approve, which they may not, for my own dad tends to be Prejudice, remember that you can't please everyone and when the time comes, you are Marrying Him... Not them.
People put Others in categories Many times. Latinos they say, are bossy, Muslims are controlling, this and that. And in your own family, they may see White guys as players, laid back or whatever they think. And in our own society they put black people in their own category of course. I personally think they are great and More... Cool.
Good luck. xx2