i feel when you are in a relationship, it's almost expected from you to have sex...
i like it in the beginning (after i get to know the guy, but later it becomes all the same... and guys sometimes feel entitled to sex, which i dont like!
i am seriously thinking to start an open relationship, because i dont want to deal with his frustration when he doesn't get sex from me...
Most Helpful Guy
In my experience, sex in a relationship is a way for you and your partner to express love towards one another intimately. It can be a fun way to carry about with your partner as well! Physical contact like that can be very healthy for a romantic relationship.
It is sad you are not comfortable with it. I dated a girl I loved very much, and she was similar, wasn't comfortable with sex. It was hard on me, not because I felt entitled, but because I was continually rejected from expressing myself emotionally and physically by not making love to her. For me, it wasn't simply a shallow physical release. That's more like using the other person, and I'd never do that to her.
I hope you find what you are looking for. I have a few friends with open relationships, but they enjoy each other as much as they enjoy others. I hope you can find a way where you can feel comfortable and fulfilled through sex with a man you love.
Most Helpful Girl
Find a guy who would be willing to put an effort to make it fun for you. Or find someone with a low sex drive who doesn't need to have sex often.