Most Helpful Guy
when you need a job, do you look at the phone expecting someone to call you and offer you one? Stop waiting for people to ask you out and do it yourself ! What's wrong with girls not understanding that you get nothing by waiting for it to fall on your lap?
Most Helpful Girl
You mentioned that you used to be shy... Some guys may see that as you being uninterested in them. I know because I used to be the same way too.