And i can't shake off the feeling that i might be a bit too picky or hav to high expectations.. There is this guy i have considered liking, he had already liked me, but he's not "obviously" attractive, he's not unattractive at all, he just an average guy i guess.
Is there any point of liking him and maybe even go on a date with him, i mean since I dont find him "obviously" attractive... I feel like if i got to know him and i liked him a lot i would be very attracted to him.. And i know a lot of guys are bad at taking pics of themself..
So whats your view on this? should i give him a chance or should i just let it go? im not a beauty queen myself, so i should "expect" him to be gergous either
Most Helpful Guy
well just think about it... your entire decision making factor is based on one thing and one thing only, a person's physical appeal, how attractive they are.
now with that only factor in mind, why does it even matter then, just let it go until you find the stud you match with. but of course the obvious question must be begged, you are potentially ditching a ton of "great guys" who have much potential to offer because of the one decision making factor you put all your eggs in.
this is why I fucking don't use Tinder.
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Most Helpful Girl
I think you should give him a chance... Most guys i know look ten times better in real life compared to their photos...