Most Helpful Girl
are you still in the closet? just wondering why the other guy can't know you're gay.
if you needed to "beat around the bush" i would say you could bring up the topic of gay marriage finally being legal and their opinion on it. if they are for it, ask if them more questions about it and ask if it affects them personally in anyway?
Most Helpful Guy
You might want to find out how he feels about homosexuality first, in the sense that if he doesn't have a big issue with it, it might be easier to tell him you are gay. Also are you attracted to him? I ask because even though he may not have any issues with gay people, he himself may not be gay, which means you might be in for some disappointment. I'm not telling you this to discourage you from seeking relationships, just know that usually gay men or women almost always seek out other gay men or women. The reason for this is, because it is much easier to be with a gay person (male or female) than trying to "convert" a straight person to become gay, unless of course the person is bi-sexual, again this will require you to communicate with the person to find these sorts of things out.