- I'd stop trying with her.
- I'd be friends with her.
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It depends. Sometimes girls say that so that you go away, it doesn't mean she wants to have a friends with benefits.
But other times girls say that because they don't wanna get attach and have casual sex, either in a friends with benefits situation or with random guys.
I would ask her what she really wants and then decide. In your case, you said you wanted a friends with benefits but he stopped texting so it means he would only pursue something with you if it was serious.
I don't think you're playing games cause you were straightforward and told him what you wanted.