1) do you like the chase? Or do you like girls to be up front & play no games. (Truthfully)
2) do you loose your interest when you realise the girl likes you back?
I was dating a guy who came oh really strong to begin with & I matched his efforts. I'm not one for playing games. We had a great time on our last date. He told me he liked me & I said it was mutual. However these last couple of days he's been distant on text, he takes ages to respond & doesn't seem like himself. No flirting/joking like before. He's been working long hours & I know he's exhausted so not sure if this is why his mood has changed. I asked him if he wanted to do anything Friday if he's not with the guys (pub night) I suggested chilling at mine with a take away & he said if he doesn't go out, then yeah it sounds really nice.
So guys help? If the case is he's lost interest how do I get it back? Do I pull back like him & get him to chase me? How do I get the attraction back? Or is he really just run down?