Well I've recently been dating/texting a girl I like and weve been out twice now and had really good times when we have been out and get on like a house on fire.
She has said that she likes me and finds me more interesting each time we meet etc and has said she wants to get to know me more.
Now it just feels a little bit weird to me not like any other girl I've been texting/dating, she doesn't text me too much really and sometimes doesn't reply for ages kinda like she is blowing me off. I've not been overly needy or anythimh but she doesn't reply to my flirts an stuff sometimes but other times she will.
So I've text her today asking what our plan for the weekend is because she's going on holiday for a week on Monday and we sorta planned to meet up as won't see her for like 2 weeks.
She text back earlier saying she won't have time now and she's really sorry but she said definitely when she is back from holiday, so i just bahh bit gutted cos ages til we will go out again etc but il let her off, just joking around.
Im just getting the feeling she's not interested anymore but feel I am also overthinking it etc, I just think if she does really like me she would make time for me at the weekend but not sure?
Am I overthinking it or do u think she is genuinely just not interested now?
Even though she has expressed she likes me and tells me im hot etc, just can't help getting this feeling and I think it will mess it up if it isn't already
Most Helpful Girl
I think she's playing with you. Or, she might be interested in something casual and testing the waters. If she focuses on your physical attractiveness in most of her compliments, I'd take that as a warning. If she were feeling a relationship, she'd be consistent at least or give you a reason she can't be.
Most Helpful Guy
I think the only real mistake you made was asking her what the plan was for the weekend. Guys are expected to decide what the plans are going to be. The more specific you can be (e. g. where you'll be going, what you'll be doing, when you'll pick her up), the more likely it is that she'll go on the date if she's interested. This whole "I can't see you over the weekend because of my upcoming trip" excuse is nonsense. I guarantee you she's making time for people who matter to her over the weekend, despite her upcoming trip.
Bottom line, just tell her to contact you after she gets back from her trip, and you'll have a fun date planned. If she contacts you, she's interested. If she doesn't, it's time to raise your head slightly and shout, "Next!"