I while back I really like this girl and I would be sweet to her then not give her attention for a few days. It would be great to see the look she would get when she saw me again. Like a warm glow of "yes! he's coming over to talk to me." I didn't want to seem clingy or overly persistent... but this went on for a few months. She would say she was busy or didn't want to date but I still gave her attention. I would of taken a hint if she would of not... flirted back. But I guess one day she was ready or whatever... probably tired of me asking her to have dinner with me. When we finally did go on dates, I thought... wow she is not as great of a person as I thought... I don't like her as much as I thought I did... this isn't going to work out. Do any other guys feel this way?
Most Helpful Girl
Well, if I were her, I'd be pissed..! But it's in your right to not like her that much anymore. You wanted to get to know her and you did, but you figured out that she was far from being what you thought she was.0
Most Helpful Guy
This same exact thing literally just happened to me, been txting with a girl for over a year and have asked out prob like 2-3 last Sept. Oct and then after this summer I asked her out again 2-3 times. She finally accepted and I just know noticed that she really wasn't worth all the effort, I didn't find anything new about her its just she doesn't put enough effort herself. Her lack of caring has made me not care.0