My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years during these three years he hasn't cheated on me from what I know he's a very friendly guy so he attracts a lot of friends and gets along with everybody anyways it's been an issue ever since we don't go to the same college he makes all these kinds of friends even girls and it makes me feel uncomfortable we broke up due to this issue before lately we have been just fighting he doesn't listen to anything I say one of his friends that are girls message to him yesterday and he didn't respond back and it made me feel suspicious and he likes a girl's picture today he never usually does this every since we've been arguing I feel like he's giving me a push back I told him if he can't stop doing these things I can't be with him he does kind of that he does stupid things like I don't know if I can handle this anymore any advice?
Most Helpful Guy
To me, it sounds like you have a big fear of loss.
Issue is that to him, you have jealousy and control issues.
I suggest you make sure what you both knowwhat counts as cheating, and let him talk to girls.
That being said, as soon as it gets secretive after he knows that you are comfortable with his platonic relationships, I'd be seening redflags.
Also, I'd let him know where your feelings are stemming from (like fear of loss)0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Girl
I think you are overthinking this, which I totally fine one of the most important thing in a relationship is trust and if you can't trust someone then the relationship isn't going to work. I think you need to trust him a little bit more, liking a girls post I don't think is really a big deal maybe he just liked that picture for some reason other than flirting. Give him another chance0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE