She needs it to buy a car. She explained everything to me. I do trust her but when it comes to money it's tough for me cause i got burned in the past. I do trust her with everything. She said she would get the money back to me in 3 weeks.
Should i do this?
Most Helpful Girl
No, you'll end up on Judge Judy or Rinder. One lesson that's taught me - NEVER LEND A LOT OF MONEY TO A girlfriend OR boyfriend.
If she can give you the money in 3 weeks, then she should wait until then to buy the car. If she can't, then tough luck. How does she think other people manage without a boyfriend to lend them so much money?
If you're not comfortable about lending it, then don't. It's a lot of money to lose out on if anything does go wrong (and trust me, they do). I'm sure you know that relationships can change very quickly. It's up to you though.4
Most Helpful Guy
IF this was me, I would like to think that my girlfriend of 4yrs would be able to come up w/ $1000 by herself! More to your question, the very fact that you have phrased it that "She WANTS $1000 from me." Worries me a tad bit, you should if not already start doing research into how she actually spends her money on a daily, weekly and monthly basis to substantiate in LENDING (key phrase here) her a grand. Even then, I would go as far as to being a co-signer on a care so to cover your ass and know that your hard-earned money is actually being spent a on a legit working car and not a damn lemon that will end up at the local garage in 2 months of ownership. Trust is one thing but actions speak a whole lot more than words can.0