I have a not-that-long-distance boyfriend and we've been dating for a couple months now, he's a little older than me. He's also African American, but a very very good person and would do anything for anyone. And my mother is extremely rascist and if she knew we were talking she'd probably send me off to a nunnery. Sometimes he drives to see me or I stay with my cousin so I can see him, and it works but it can still be hard to maintain the secret. He doesn't mind, he just doesn't want me to get in trouble. Do I stay with him? Do I break it to my mom?