How many of you single people wish you had a boyfriend/girlfriend?

I do, I'm super lonely. Am I the only one? :(
  • I'm single and wish I had a boyfriend/girlfriend!!! :'(
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  • I'm single and don't want a boyfriend/girlfriend >:p
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  • Taken and happy ^_^
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  • I do sometimes, but I'm better off single for now. Every time I start wishing I had a partner, I just remind myself of why I can't right now and I usually feel better.

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    • Nice! :D curious-why is it you can't?

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    • WOW lol yaaaa i feel you, im also in college and gonna be a junior-almost finished! im always busy with school work, work, or my friends or family but id love to be able to fit a boyfriend into all that...:p

    • Good luck with school, then! I'm sure you'll be able to find time soon enough. Maybe you'll luck out and have a few really easy classes, so you wouldn't have to do as much school work!

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What Guys Said 27

  • I picked A. Yeah I want one.
    However, I don't let the loneliness or whatever take control of my life. I want one when the time is right -- not one for the sake of having one. I don't want to force something that had no chance of working. I've been single for 19 years, whats a little more time going to hurt?

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    • Exactly! I would never want to force a relationship with someone when I knew it wasn't really gonna workout-I have a friend who does this which is why she's never single

  • I actually do all the time. Sometimes I feel that it isn't worth it, but I can't lie to myself that I have this sort of longing to have a girlfriend.
    I hope i'd meet that special someone next year in college ;)

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    • Me too! lol I hope I find someone eventually

  • I've been acting like "oh im single, i dont need to be in a relationship to be happy. im an independent bitch *hair flip*"
    but in reality, im so fucking depressed and lonely.
    I dont think its good to hide feelings like that but whatever.

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  • Yo like same here is what's weird... Such a coincidence

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  • I think it would be best for me to remain single for now. I've got my own issues to deal with and I have to become more awesome before I get a girlfriend.

    It wouldn't be fair to her if I came with all this baggage.

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    • But you will always have baggage! And that's not always a bad thing ^_^

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    • Makes sense, especially if the baggage is an exgirlfriend your not over. Still, I wouldn't even start a friends with benefits thing if your not over something like that cuz chances are, she'll catch feelings...

    • Oh it's not an ex :P

  • I don't its too much work like you have to constantly keep them happy and they can be controlling

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    • I don't think of it this way at all-If its someone I really care about, it would be no problem at all for me to love to keep them happy ^_^

  • Taken by my bae Monica.

    https://i.imgur.com/ShEkUrb.jpg

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  • Have you ever tried asking a guy out? The majority of girls just sit back and wait and then they whine that no guy has come up to them yet. You need to take initiative yourself.

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    • yes, it never works out. this one guy i went on a date with 2 weeks back im pretty interested in but he was busy when i asked him out on a second date and i try texting him but he seems to have pulled back. i asked him if he was still interested in seeing me but he apparently thinks this is more difficult now that im going back to school (a week after our first date i went back to college but am still in the same city as he is), he's out of college and 5,6 years older than me. is he disinterested or what? this is the kind of shit i deal with all the time, the guys im interested in either loose interest, stop communicating with no explanation, or they dont like me back :(

    • Well you only tried twice. Many guys go through 20 times of failure before it finally works out. Some guys just give up entirely.

      You'll just have to keep trying.

  • i have had many offers to be with someone, but only want women for friendship, or sex.

    I am always honest in this, and they might not like it, but respect the honesty

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  • I picked A and have resigned myself to being single. At my age its tough to find women unless you have a fat bank account

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    • Awww thats sad :( honestly, a fat bank account is the last thing i look for in a guy, i dont understand that...

    • like as long as they have a job, he's fine to me...

    • I understand and guys your age that's acceptable. When you are 45 you have to be established and have your ow hone and great credit and $$$$$

  • Well I don't wish I had a girlfriend or something but I want one right now... LOL..
    But I doing feel lonely..😊

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    • why not and only now? lol

    • Lol I moved to a bigger city now and got a job too... so that's why 😁

  • Nvr thoughy a cutie would crave for relationships. Guess i juz keep learning sumthing new everyday 😚

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  • I've dated someone but never had a girlfriend... just can't seem to find the right girl, beginning to think there is something wrong with me

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  • One point wish i wasn't Single but than again i really am not so sure

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  • I will be very happy to be single again post divorce , I will NOT even be attempting to date either , I actually want to remain alone , I never get lonely as I prefer my own company , but will of course have time for my children. I'm VERY surprised to see this posted by a young woman , it's far easier for a woman to get a man , than a man to even get the chance to meet a woman , as women are the choosers in general , plus there are a lot more men than women... so you have a vast man buffet to choose from !!

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    • awww this is so sad! why would you want to be single and lonely the rest of your life? :( as long as your happy with this decision i guess. im kinda choosey about guys, i dont want to force anything and i want to pick a guy with similar interests as my own. everytime i fall hard for a guy he never seems to like me back :( girls can have just as much trouble finding a partner as guys!! dont let anyone fool you...

    • You come across as decent & well meaning , you will make some lucky guy very happy as your heart is in the right place !! Sadly most women are NOT like you... most seem to view men as beneath them , " media " anti male propaganda has left it's mark , also I need peace , quiet & solitude , I deal with people sometimes in my work , it's very draining for me.

  • I could live without one, allows me to focus on things more easily

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  • I'm super lonely too! I wish I had a girlfriend, or at least a girl to hangout with.

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  • yes I feel very lonely too... :'( :'( :'(

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  • Nope, not anymore ^^

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  • Yeah, it's not going to happen.

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    • Why? lol

    • Just being realistic, by a certain age you know if you appeal to women or not. I just keep to myself and I have come to terms with being single.

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What Girls Said 10

  • I've been single for a long while (don't even have the chance to meet anyone) and yes it would be good being in a relationship.

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  • Yeah I do. I don't want to date just anyone though.
    So i suppose it'll be awhile. :(

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    • There's nothing wrong with having standards :)

    • Same Kay211! lol that's part of the reason I've never had a boyfriend-too fussy! :p

  • Single and enjoying it as I can, I love my freedom 💙
    But yeah, not gonna deny that sometimes I wish I had a boyfriend. Then again.. I doubt it's gonna work lol so yeah..

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  • Single and I love my freedom.
    Not gonna lie tho, sometimes I would like to be with someone, but then I see all my friends with so much drama in their lives and I realized I'm good XD

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  • I just wish I had someone to give me affection and sex. Otherwise I'm fine.

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  • I'm not ready for a relationship, so I'm fine being single for the moment

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  • Its good to have someone but sometimes it can be bad.

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    • How can it be bad? :/

    • You have fights. There will be arguments.

      "Man is like the liquor, And the woman is like the mixer and life mixes it up, And god is like the bartender, And the devil is you mother in law."

      where did I get this quote from? (sorry if its mean to anyone)

  • I am taken but being single did feel lonely sometimes

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  • Honestly, I don't want to date anyone right now.

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  • I sometimes do see some of my friends with their boyfriends and I feel lonely. Like I would like to have someone to love me and be by my side. But honestly I dont think I am ready. When ur in a relationship u can't be selfish u need to think about the other person to. I dont think I can do that now I am in college now figuring out who I am what I want to do.

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