- Stay with the old relationship.
- Pursue new relationships.
- Avoid all relationships new and old.
- Other. (Elaborate below, please?)
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"You can't stand the thought of hurting someone so dear to you, but everywhere you turn would be pain. Staying in it would limit you both. And you'd be living a lie."
Sounds to me like you already know what you need to do. Don't worry about how much it will hurt him. He's a big boy; he'll survive and move on.