Most Helpful Guy
I do think you should tell him so he knows how to have sex with you and understands the first time may be painful.
It doesn't make any difference to me whether or not I would date somebody, though.
Most Helpful Girl
No. Unless you have confirmed that you and this guy are actually going to have a future then he does not need to know if you are a virgin. I stayed a virgin until I was 21 and chose not to disclose this information to guys. This is because most of the guys you date are futureless anyway. The connection is not going to evolve and you two are never going to develop a legitimate, impactful relationship so why does he need to know? Plus, some guys think that virgins are trophies and will disgustingly prey on their virginity like a vulture hovering and waiting for it's meal. They may not even truly love you or be all that into you but they will wait as long as it takes to devour the vulnerable, one time experience that is your virginity. You gotta look out for those azzes!
You do not need to explain yourself sexually to a guy who is not your boyfriend. You don't owe him an explanation nor do you have to disclose how much extra skin you have in your vaggie. Never tell them unless they officially become a boyfriend.
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