I just don't feel it if a guy isn't confident. I went on a few dates with a guy who's tall, built, confident and dominant. He wasn't afraid to approach me, compliment me and ask me out. One one date, he lifted my shirt and tickled my belly. The last one, we were at his place and we started making out and he started feeling my belly under my shirt. He pulled my shirt off and started kissing my neck and then my belly and one thing led to another. He now tries to order me around, and put his hand under my shirt when I don't want him to and he doesn't pay much attention to my needs.