- Get to know both of them more.Vote A
- The Wisconsin guy. He said he's willing to come see you so give him a shot.Vote B
- The local guy. You guys aren't dating.Vote C
- You're not cheating on the Wisconsin guy.Vote D
- It's up to youVote E
Should I go for the guy outside of state or the local one? Is it cheating on, even though none of us are dating?
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Both guys sort of come with a risk; the Wisconsin dude lives far away, and the other guy works with you which could potentially lead to an awkward working environment if the two of you were to break up.
Long distance relationships are hard. They really are. If I thought the guy from work had real, solid potential and I really liked him, I'd probably lean more towards him. That's just me, though. Then again, if the guy from work seemed kinda "meh," but the Wisconsin guy seemed really great then I'd be all for Wisconsin guy, 'cause why not? You should make a pros and cons list!
For now, try to get to know both guys a bit more. You're single so hanging out with the guy from work wouldn't be cheating. Just try not to lead anyone on, and be as open about your situation as you can. I think it's a good idea not to rush into anything.0
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