I have this girl i really like. We've gone back and forth for four months via text message. I intended to ask her out when she stopped texting me. I didn't ask for an explanation but she contacted after i texted her one day and said she was going through surgery soon. I still want to ask her out but have decided to wait until its done and she's had time to recover. My question is this i dont know where the hospital is so i can't hang out in the waiting room for support. there's not much else i can do either. if im not there for her can i still ask her out post recovery?