I am a recently divorced men (been about two years since the break-up) and soon to turn 35. I got a great career, loads of friends, am very active, no kids etc. Tested the dating world out there and is it just me or its quite more a cutthroat place than I recall before I got married? Attracting girls is not a problem, its keeping them interested that is difficult. I usually date women between 30-36 and man are they ''Flaky''. Can't count the amount of times I got ''Ghosted'',''Double booked'' (believe it or not Ladies and Gentlemen, one girl even showed with another dude on our third date). So yeah. I am freaked out because it seems its like Hollywood out there: Everyone is always on the look out for a bigger, better deal. So here my question, boys and girls, is 35-40 a bad age for men to date and should I wait a few years so I can interest girls that are abit more mature or should I keep at it hoping to find an ''unicorn'' in the lot?
Men should you date during your 35-40s?
What Girls Said 0
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What Guys Said 3
Honestly if I was 35 and single I think I'd prefer to just play the field or stay single indefinitely. Call me cynical but at that point I wouldn't see much motivation to settle down.
I'm not sure how common it is for a girl to show up with another guy but if that happened to me I wouldn't even consider anything serious with her.0
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Keep hoping, if you give up now maybe things won't get better in the future. Don't stop, look for what you want and you'll probably find.0
I think men can date at any age.0