I agree with all of that... where I am stuck is we aren't exclusive, he said that is basically a relationship but that it's not like he's been with anyone else. He said he doesn't even want to think about me doing that with someone else. My feelings are It is an unspoken understanding, In agreeing to be exclusive, we're basically saying, 'I like you and want to see if this continues to be good, so I won't do anything with anyone else that could mess this up, but officially calling you my girlfriend/boyfriendis a little too much at this point.
We are not intimant with each other right now... we are taking things slow. He's put me off a bit because he still checks his online dating profile. (That's even how we met :) ) We aren't in a relationship, we are dating, so he can do whatever he wants. I feel why would he do something that could alter us moving forward and developing something new together. It makes me nervous.