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Whether or not we like it the truth is not everyone wants a long term relationship but many still crave intimacy. So I'm not sure if these people are assholes for having different desires than you or because they informed you of their desires. Personally I'd much rather a person tell me what they want than leave me to make inaccurate assumptions that are bound to hurt me later. So I don't think your an asshole magnet I think that you've unfortunately had the bad luck of encountering many individuals that don't share your desires. And I can't help to identify if your doing anything wrong because I don't really know what you've been doing. There's not really any details about how your finding these men.