i'm a realatively attractive person, independant and not clingy in the least. i like to be upfront with everyone i meet, and men seem to like my company. i don't sweat much, but i DO like to have some security in a relationship. somehow, though, i keep attracting these men who are happy to take me out, but then drop the line about not "looking for anything serious". this is usually the point where i throw up my hands and say "then don't expect me to sleep with you." and walk away feeling like i've wasted my precious time. am i just an asshole magnet, or am i doing something wrong?
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because everything you say about yourself is not true. you are not independent because you require security in a man, and you require a man to commit to getting serious with you before you have sex with him, which is totally clingy, and also super manipulative and disrespectful to men. sex is not some prize you give to men when they fulfill your bitchy pretentious demands, its an enjoyable experience two people share so when you intentionally hold back on it to suit your own selfish one sided desires its no wonder men don't want to do it with you. and when you're unwilling to share a single moment with him because of your own solipsistic expectations, why the fuck should he commit to something more serious than that and what else is he to expect but MORE demands and ultimatums? You don't get it, bitch, HE is the one walking away because any further interaction with you would be wasting HIS precious time of which you clearly have no regard for. You're a white elephant; he takes one look at you and sees the effort its worth to even obtain you, much less maintain you, is not even close to worth what he's getting
narcissists like you, who use sex as a weapon and wonder what happened when people are less than pleased about it-- you sicken me2
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