Most Helpful Guy
Being beautiful doesn't cut it for me. What else are you bringing to the table? Why is only he the focus in terms of value? If you yourself aren't driven and successful, you shouldn't expect someone else to be. I know I'd never marry someone that just wanted to ride off of my success while they sit on the couch.
Most Helpful Girl
Why don't you make your own money and get your own status if it's so important to you. If anything the fact that you want/need that in someone else shows that you lack discipline, not him.