I've been seeing this guy for 2 months now and we both really like each other. He is recovering from an addiction and has been sober for a year and a couple months now so we both talked about it and decided to take it slow. Last time we saw each other was 3 weeks ago, when we had that discussion. The week after that, he was sick, and then the next week he went out of town and last week, I was out of town - so we haven't seen each other in 3 weeks. I am finding that when he does text me, he no longer asks follow up questions and that I am the one initiating most of our conversations via text. Is he slowly disappearing? Should I even make an effort with this guy?