Now, is he pulling back or is he busy or is he not interested at all? Is there anyway I can get his interest back or is done?
Most Helpful Guy
Well if he's same age as you he shouldn't be playing mind games its childish. No one is that busy for 10days or whatever. It only takes seconds to send a text. You don't sound desperate its not as if you're texting him 3x a day, I bet he's waiting for you to text again. Just ask him if he's ok & can you help in any way?
Most Helpful Girl
If he is pulling away, let him go. You can have a conversation about it. You can share your observation about the change in his behaviour. You can ask questions in a way that makes it safe for him to explore the reasons for the change. You can express your love for him.
But you can't make him love you. And love does not try to control the other. Love requires choice. So in letting him go, you are also loving yourself. You deserve to be loved by someone who freely chooses you not as the result of being manipulated by fear, obligation, or guilt.
Love him enough to respect his choice and yourself enough to be chosen by him or another who will do so freely.