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Well, a work buddy of mine, short skinny dark skinned indian guy just married his very pretty white fiancé a few months ago, and honestly he's one of the ugliest guys you'll ever come across. Smart, but ugly as sin. Not saying indian guys are ugly, it's just that he in particular is pretty much so lol.
So you can be self defeating, or you can be like my short, skinny dark skinned, ugly friend and go slay a white American girl.
But he's not lacking in confidence in himself or his perspectives, he knows he's damn ugly and will tell you outright... so it's got nothing to do with appearance. or the accent, or the head nod thing.