I'm 19 and never had a boyfriend. I mean no boyfriend as in no kissing no hand holding no nothing lol. I mean, my first 'bf' went out with me for money so that def doesn't count since it was only for a few hours. But anyways, I can't help but wonder why that is? Back in high school all of my friends had bf's or at least talking to someone. Then there was me, attending prom date less. (Sad huh? I didn't even had fun at prom. But that's a whole different story.) My friends at school would tell me 'I don't know. I just can't see you with a guy for some reason. Maybe its because you're so funny' and I'm like? What does that have to do with anything. Okay this is turning into a novel so I'm just gonna describe myself.
I'm a mixed African-American woman, I weigh 125 pounds as of right now, I have hazel eyes and I'm 5'5. I love to read books, listen to music, sing, dance, go for walks at night, & watch scary movies. In my group of friends I was the funny, outgoing one. The one who people wanted to be around to get in a good mood. The one who they could come to to get advice or just get something off there chest. The trustworthy friend. Also, I take great pride in my looks. I think I am very pretty inside and out. I think I would be a great model ( if I didn't have anxiety and knew how to walk in heels) So everyone I go on social media and I see all my friends in happy relationships I'm like 'what gives?' 😡 Sometimes, I can't help but feel.. Lonely is all. Sorry for the novel. Just wanted to know what you guy think about this. 😊😊
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You have nothing to worry about. High school is a poor representation of how dating will go in the real world. Relationships in high school are determined by status, popularity and cliques. Relationships in the real world are determined by looks and personality alone (in most circumstances). It seems that you're a pretty lady and that you have an ecstatic personality, so you should be fine. I didn't date anyone in high school, and by 24 I have dated a shameful amount of people.