I have an app (which isn't a dating app) who I met a guy through. I use it when I am around him too (only when he isn't talking though) I have known him for 24 hours and he made me delete the app because he is getting insecure that someone will take me away from him (his words). He also deleted his and other apps (he showed me).
Is this a red flag? Should I be worried?
- Run awayVote A
- He must like youVote B
Most Helpful Guy
this is why i don't believe in dating sites.1
Most Helpful Girl
If you would've been in a relationship for a while I'd think that it's okay as long as you are able to have an open discussion about it. But since you've only known him for 24 hours I would think it's possessive. That to me is a red flag and a bit unstable. I would NEVER ask someone to do that after such a short time. I would at most question why he would have those apps- IF we had been in a relationship for a while.
If I were you I'd either talk to him about it or leave. Give him your opinion and discuss it calmly. If he shows any sign of aggression you should leave instantly.1