Is this a bad message to send to a guy? Guys help me out here please?
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No... don't let him make you think your being mean or out of line, take charge, you know what you want and you know you want to be taken seriously by a guy not messed around and used, so that was definitely a very straight to the point, clear as day answer that even a chipmunk can understand xD lol, but honestly if he only talks to you when he feels like it and just seems distant i would just move on... don't let him make you give into it, if he's trying to use you for sex he will do that, he will expect you to say "okie i will have sex with you", but don't give him the satisfaction if he is. I once had a guy who just wanted sex and he would sleep with other girls behind his gfs backs, you know the fact he got dumped about a dozen times already should of been the red flag but i didn't want to assume... so i'm not suprised it's because he was caught cheating a dozen times... but he never cared 1 bit... he just wanted both a girlfriend and as many pieces on the side as he could get, he used to only talk to me when he felt like he wanted sex or talk about sex... he wasn't interested in having a proper conversation with me, then evetually he got bored of me, ignored me and then blocked me on FB lol... twat... so id be careful. Text him and try to start a regular conversation with him, if he keeps trying to shift it back to sex or doesn't seem interested at all in the conversation and makes excuses to not talk then it's obvious he only wants sex.
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