Most Helpful Girl
I understand your dilemma. But there are different rules for attractive women, than for lesser attractive ones. Attractive women are much more on guard, because they have to be, or they would be sexually harassed all the time. Forgive me, but most men that approach are aggressive/unpleasant, and attractive women do NOT get a break from unwanted attention. They're almost afraid to show interest, because things can quickly get out of hand, and then they kick themselves all the way down. Then they get blamed for hurting others and then feel guilty. They get sick of the cycle of hurt, so they restrict their interactions to a few. Above average attractive girls never get approached by NICE or DECENT guys, or maybe they'd be a little more optimistic. 98% of the time they are ugly, perverted, aggressive or super goofy or totally lame (to the point of vomiting) or feeling super entitled like 'hey you're cute so give me your number?' what? I'm a nice guy. see you girls never like nice guys. well f u then. nobody liked your ugly face anyway. (I'm not making this up, this happened frequently to me). Very rarely do girls get approached in a normal way. And please don't judge attractive girls by the rude reactions of psycho mean girls - cus they're hateful to girls too. If your approach is really decent, and sweet and not overly pushy its perfect!
Attractive women are sometimes even more insecure because people are constantly critiquing their looks. If you wear the same thing twice, or have eye boogers, or a stain on your pants (why is it always the butt area?), or your hair is messed up random strangers will call attention to it, sometimes nicely, and sometimes not so nicely, and sometimes they will make it up just to distract from that hot guy that's eyeing you so you'll thank them profusely, and go in the bathroom mortified to correct it, only to realize what a fool you were.
So... attractive insecure women are deathly afraid of rejection, and possibly even more afraid of indicating that they have thing for you - cuz then you can find their weakness and humiliate them. Just be honest and straightforward with them - don't tease too much cus they can be surprisingly naive. Earn their trust, and they'll open up cus women are addicted to sharing and opening up to friendships. If she doesn't, after a lot of persistence, then she's got too many issues and even if I tried to be her friendgirl she'd reject me too (see it's not just about romantic relationships).
Most Helpful Guy
They don't pay attention to you because they're just like you. Like you they ignore the people who they don't find attractive that really like them and focus on the people they do find attractive who may not be paying them any attention at all.