right so basically my best friend has started seening this older guy. he's 18 (19 next month) and she's 14, like me. i know that isn't that much older but it seems odd to me that an 18 year old would want anything to do with a 14 year old. she swore to me that she loves him and that theyve never had sex. she also said that he is really nice and he's not trying to get her to 'do stuff'. But im still really worried about her! her mom dosen't know that she's seeing this guy. i know that she's been lying to her mom aswell pretending she's sleeping at my house when really she's at his. please anyone what should i do? should i tell her mom? would it just be sly to tell her mom? guys, if you were 18 would you be interested in a relationship with a 14 year old girl? somebody please just help me, i dont know what to do.
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Tell an adult. It is NOT a horrible thing to be doing. You are caring for your friend. Something bad could happen to her. This guy could also take advantage of her. It is against the law for him and her to be together.
First tell her that this is not good and that something bad could happen. Tell her it is against the law and that he could get in trouble too. If she ignores it and does not break up with him... tell the adult.
I could not think of a normal 19 year old wanting to date a 14 year old. It seems he is trying to take advantage of her.0