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That's a copout... if they were serious about a girl then they would include their girlfriend. The only reason it would not be a copout is if the marriage recently broke-up, you can't expect him to introduce a girlfriend so soon after the break-up that would be very hard on the kids. But if it has been years since the break-up then there should be a gradual introduction of the girlfriend to the kids. Once it is complete then you get to spend more time together.