Most Helpful Girl
Make a plan and get back with her! You sound like you've got something special, you can't let it go!
Most Helpful Guy
If you felt so strongly about the woman, I would find a way. Where there is a will, there's a way. Even if it seems unlikely, if you want it bad enough, you can find a way.
But, before you travel 3k miles to see her again, I'll let you know that there ARE women like that all over - you just have to find them. Really good women are a rare commodity anymore, but they are there.
As for getting over her - you'll just have to move on and let time do its thing. You'll notice yourself thinking of her less and less. Find a hobby that will get your mind off of her. Work extra hours if you can. Do things to occupy your time. Eventually, the memories will be there, but they will disconnect from the emotion.