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I think it's hard to find those kind of single women and ladies to begin with, and even then there are no guarantees regardless. Just because we agreed on never having any children of our own it does not guarantee that we are compatible with each other in many or all the other various areas of our lives.
I more or less given up on even trying to date anyone once I realized I did not want Any children and I know it's an absolute HUGE Deal Breaker in the world of relationships and dating.
But it's more so because I don't really have an optimistic or happy outlook with life, our reality and our world, as well as the future.
Personally I think the "love" like many have experienced it is really just part of the biological process. Hormones and various of those chemicals running through our bodies and minds. If relationships are everywhere and they lead to children, just look at the animal kingdom, etc. then why would it be in any way "special"?
You have to look at the root causes as to why relationships, marriage, family and reproduction happens at all in the first place. LOOK AT THE BIG PICTURE.
The whole process is just there to reduce the probability of a species from completely dying out eventually because those hormones and chemicals within our bodies and brain causes us to feel, and increases desire someone of the opposite gender to mate and ultimately reproduce and pass the genes on. Because the reproduction process is the "passing on" of another generation "to replace" the previous generations that will eventually die out and cease to exists
I just don't believe it's special at all. Now if one day somehow and someway there was a way to cheat death permanently then I would think that is "absolutely special" because it had always been thought to be completely impossible and if we can no longer die or die easily anymore then reproduction, marriage and family may not be as desirable and not as important anymore, and possibly become obsolete. We'd then no longer have a need to even reproduce. We'd be above all other life and living things and our needs would possibly completely change.
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