I'm gonns be 19 soon, and everyone i know seems to have been in a relationship. The thing is, i don't actually want to be in one, but its not like i don't want to be in one, its just sort of, if it happens, its happens. But, why i wonder about this is basically because everyone else around me has had that experience, whereas i haven't and i guess that is what makes me curious haha. I was asked out once when i was 15, but i didn't really want to go out with them... and i thought they were joking lol. I've been told i'm pretty (although i don't believe it) and i've been catcalled, stared at, and fancied apparently, but never in a relationship, and never even kissed. Is this weird? Anyone else had this?
Most Helpful Guy
I'm 19 and never have been in a relationship, had a first kiss, whatever-- you name it. Heck, no girl has ever officially confessed feelings towards me even. I know others like that too, and they are attractive and what not.
So no, you are not alone. There are many many people in the same boat. Take life at your own time, don't feel rushed because of social pressure. Do it when YOU want to do it-- when you're ready.
Most Helpful Girl
19 is still so young! Everyone moves at their own pace. Don't feel pressured about anything just because society or others tell you that is the "norm". If you rush into it, you might be disappointed. When you wait for the right guy, it might make you feel really good and special. When it happens, it'll happen. :)