I told him I wasn't going to wait around for him to message me when he felt like it
I would move on and find someone else
I said I wasn't looking for a bit of fun, he never insinuated that, but wanted to make it clear to him
I said I was looking for a real relationship
I then gave him an ultimatium
I've come to a decision that new start, starts by you meeting me
is yes then great
if no I am moving on to find someone else, and I mean it
If you care about meet you will meet otherwise I am really gone
it's upto you, it's your last chance to meet me
He replied to my message
I would love to see you
don't want to miss out on this last chance
He's been in regular contact everyday since issuing him with the ultimatium
so what do you guys think, was he scared to lose me? Does he really want a relationship with me?
A serious relationship?
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Had the same situation. Gave him 3 chances total.
Excuse 1: His mum died. Alright, it was public, he told the truth. A month passed.
Excuse 2: He failed an exam, he has to study. Been there, ok. A week passed.
Excuse 3: Got sick on the bus, had to travel home. (postonded 15 minuts before the date) - instadump