Most Helpful Guy
If you are over 18 then what are you waiting for? Get on with it. You are missing out.
The only men who care that their wives are virgins when they marry are radical Islamists, who will then put them in a burka and not let them leave the house without permission; radical Christians who tend to be married at 18 or 19, then wonder why they are divorced before 30 (not always, but often enough), and a certain segment of young, usually wealthy Chinese men who marry the girl they are supposed to, and see a prostitute every few days throughout the engagement and beyond. (the women involved really hate this double standard). Many radical Christian men also hire prostitutes, so as not to taint their girl, but then they act surprised when they get caught.
One virgin I met one time, on our first date said, "I'm tired of being a virgin". We took care of that problem a couple of hours later. I have more silly virgin stories, and they all end well.
You have a fairytale fantasy in your head that isn't true. You were told this fantasy as a girl, and you believed it. You stopped believing in Santa Claus, but you cling to this. Virginity is highly over rated. It is the worst sex you will ever have, fortunately it gets better.
Most Helpful Girl
I consider it normal, however, I don't think you should put it too much importance.
In the long run, it won't matter much if you're a virgin or not. Guys who would reject you for the sole reason that you're not a virgin, are not worthy of your time anyway.