Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like the guys you are referring to are, "thrill of the chase guys." They probably had little actual interest in you and just wanted to prove to whomever that they could "score" you, i. e. get your number. You're decribing self-obsessed, losers who are just playing games.
They have little to do with your attractiveness. You're probably a wonderful person, don't fall for/like an idiot who is obsessed with himself or his vanity.
Most Helpful Girl
He's playing mind games with you