We sleep in the same bed pretty much every night as a given.
He is my close friend as well as whatever he is.
He also knows that he has me wrapped around his little finger and that i won't say no which i hate.
I'm afraid to not do what he wants because i might lose him, but i also don't do anything i dont WANT to do.
He also talks about other girls. I don't mind if he finds them attractive but when he talks about them realistically it hurts my feelings. I don't know if he messages other girls.
He said he liked me once but it's been weird since then.
Sexually we are pretty great.
I'm just really confused at what he wants...
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How are you confused about what he wants? Re-read what you've written.
He wants what he's getting - sex whenever he likes, the option to talk to other girls, a cosy warm bed to snuggle in, the option to talk to other girls, a girl wrapped around his little finger, the option to talk to other girls, he's done the hard work & achieved what he wants without giving you any label or indication of your status together.
You fell into the trap of "Well he's with me most nights so..." without him actually giving you anything verbal to go off. Continue to play this game and end up even more confused.