2. Now, she talks to someone infront of me, maybe there is really some guy or she is trying to make me jealous.
3. Anyways, i got jealous, and I made the first move to break the ice, i said "excuse me..." and then we talked about 1-2 things.
4. She seemed really happy and she smiled at everything i said.
Now what should i do? is she really having some guy?
or was she trying to play hard to get and making me jealous?
Please help me
Most Helpful Girl
I wouldn't trust those signs unless they're really obvious, such as her touching you constantly on the arm, giving you lots of hugs etc. Us humans have a bad habit of seeing things that aren't there. When we really want something we try to convince ourselves that every look they give us or every move they make is an indicator of them liking us back. It's usually not the case though.
I'm thinking that you're totally over-analyzing this and that you're reading into stuff that aren't there. She was on the phone, how do you know it even was a guy that she was talking to? It could have been her mom or a friend or something. Stop being so dramatic and start talking to her more. Ask her out soon.
You won't get anywhere if you keep asking yourself these pointless questions and if you keep making up excuses not to talk to her or make a move. All you're doing is wasting time, and in the end she might actually find someone else. But her being on the phone means nothing, it could have been anyone and who says it was to make you jealous? You're blowing things out of proportion.
Most Helpful Guy
The fact that you are already jealous and not even a thing at all with this girl needs to stop. It's just ridiculous. What you need to do is just go ask her if she wants to grab coffee or study some time. But don't ask it just state it, like "hey we should grab some coffee or study sometime" but only say that after some conversation first. If you say it out of the blue she will feel like you are taking her hostage. It's all really quite simple. Lose the jealousy.
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