Most Helpful Guy
No. Your house, your rules. It works both ways. I say that, and I'm a father.
Most Helpful Girl
Well it all depends on how you look at it. Her being his mother, she would feel and would kinda be entitled to look out for his well being and women, since you're one, are often stubborn like mules in drying tar, so some would say that you were being rude by saying such things to a proud mother like her.
Since you sound like a proud woman yourself, I'm on your side when I say that the bullshit had to stop. Honestly some women need to let go of their sons. I get that they love them and such but if you have been with him for so long and intend to marry him, then that should be a sign that you are capable enough to be GOOD ENOUGH. I applaud you though sweetheart. My patience only goes so far. You did the right thing. When you let people walk over you, they take the offered inch and go seven miles. She has to learn to let go and hand over the reigns to the woman her son loves.