I really don't get it. I am chasing the guy right now to be honest and it feels wrong. When I do see him it's all fine but he wants me to initiate everything now and I'm not really getting anywhere with him he tells me to reach out for him (why?) but doesn't intiate anything saying he has to do everything. It was true but now I'm chasing him. I can't tell if he actually wants to see me or just show interest or if he is playing me like keeping me on the hook. I have initiated but he does not put in any effort other than replying.
Most Helpful Guy
Stop chasing him let his ego get hurt. He'll contact you or might be he isn't as interested a you thought.0
Most Helpful Girl
Wrong. All the way wrong.
Not only is chasing a guy a turn off to him because it makes you look like a predictable push-over who's too available and possibly even desperate. But it's almost like a smack in the face to your potential self. Like there's some measure of handing over your dignity, self-respect, and all the experiences you deserve on a silver platter. You deserve to feel wanted. You deserve to have a guy make time for you in his schedule. There are CEO's, neurosurgeons, and professional athletes who STILL manage to make time for those they care about or to do something they enjoy. Is he really THAT busy? -_- No. So it's time for you to stop chasing him around because for him to even request that says something really unbecoming about his ego and sense of consideration.
Stop talking to him. Stop initiating contact. Stop making plans. Helpful tip woman to woman: Falling in love with life will always remedy any disappointment, frustration, or pain a man brings you. You will find yourself being so passionate and busy exploring what life has to offer that you'll forget why you ever wanted him <30