- He's losing interest
- He still loves you he's just really busy don't worry.
Is he losing interest in me?
What Guys Said 1
"In the last few months my boyfriend and i speak less frequently. "
^is he being busy? or u speak less frequently coz u had a fight or sth like dat maybe?
"Its at the point where we no longer text unless I text first and even then sometimes he takes forever to reply. "
^which means... sounds like u r more interested than him by some small degree at least... ;)
"Ik he's busy he works and goes to college everyday."
^so definetely busy schedule i'd say... ;)
"And when he's not at school he works 16 hours a day."
^huh? did u mean 6 maybe? coz 16 hrs/day + school... when he sleeps?
"I also know that recently he's gotten two jobs. Thats why I feel bad about confronting him. "
^2 jobs and college as well? then definetely consider he has 0 time for u sorry...
"But at one point our several calls a day turned into once a day and those have now become once a week at most."
^if it happened after his 2 jobs... then u can figure out y... ;)
"He can go days, weeks even without speaking to me. And when I call him he just won't pick up and will take days to return my call. When I confront him he says he's just busy and that he swears he loves me he's just occupied."
^i tend to believe he's not lyin... ;)
"Sometimes he tries to blame me and say I'm ghosting when it's clearly him but he'll say let's make it work coz he loves me. I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm scared he's losing interest despite him telling me he loves me more than any girl in the world. He says i love you but his actions don't."
^indeed... his actions could mean he's ignorin u... BUT... he has 2 jobs + college... also he needs some time to sleep as well...
in other words as i said above... he has 0 time for u... coz he's really-really busy...
so if u feel u r being ignored i believe it'd be better to dump him then... ;)
What Girls Said 1
Your relationship sounded like my last one and I think he is losing interest. Mine was.
I'm sorry ):
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