So I've been in a ldr for 11 months now, we're both 21. In the last few months my boyfriend and i speak less frequently. Its at the point where we no longer text unless I text first and even then sometimes he takes forever to reply. In the first few months the he'd text me first and if he didn't hear from me he'd lool to find out why. Ik he's busy he works and goes to college everyday. And when he's not at school he works 16 hours a day. I also know that recently he's gotten two jobs. Thats why I feel bad about confronting him. But at one point our several calls a day turned into once a day and those have now become once a week at most. He can go days, weeks even without speaking to me. And when I call him he just won't pick up and will take days to return my call. When I confront him he says he's just busy and that he swears he loves me he's just occupied. Sometimes he tries to blame me and say I'm ghosting when it's clearly him but he'll say let's make it work coz he loves me. I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm scared he's losing interest despite him telling me he loves me more than any girl in the world. He says i love you but his actions don't.
- He's losing interestVote A
- He still loves you he's just really busy don't worry.Vote B