Most Helpful Girl
Totally doesn't make you a loser. Society puts so much pressure on guys to be some babe magnet so it ends up making them feel dumb or like there's something wrong with them when they aren't. You'll find someone when the time is right, I promise.
Most Helpful Guy
You need to ask yourself, can you not get girls because something about you is unattractive? Or because you don't even try, and you expect them to come to you? I used to think that I was ugly because I never got any girls, but I later found out that I'm a solid 8 or 9/10. Sadly, I dated the first girl that ever approached me for 2 years even though she wasn't even my type. Obviously it didn't work out and I learned to not settle for someone that isn't right for you just because you're scared or too lazy to chase girls that you are truly attracted to. And if it's something about you that's unattractive then try to fix it. If you can't fix it then make another trait better to make up for it. Also work on your physical appearance, because that's the first thing that they see and judge you on. Work on your self esteem so that you aren't thinking about this. Women love confident men so try to get that confidence.