Most Helpful Guy
It means the relationship is too much work. lol.
Maybe you're needy. Some examples might be:
can you drive me to work?
Can I borrow some cash?
Let's go to (insert boring/expensive/time consuming shit) again! And again! And again!
Maybe you're too shy:
Him) how was your day?
Him) ... That's it?
(I dumped my last girlfriend for this 1 word answer bull shit)
Maybe you're have too many "conditions" that have to be met before sex (either intentional or subconscious):
Only on week ends
Only if he takes you out some where first
Only if the house is clean
^Don't dismiss this one^ sex is huge. It's supposed to be a normal part of a healthy relationship, not a carrot on the end of a stick that's offered as a reward for good behavior. Treat your guy like that, and he'll treat you like a hooker, since the concept is basically the same but with a different currency.
OR Here's how it could just be his problem.
Maybe he's insecure because he doesn't think he's good enough for you and needs to improve his:
and now he's just sort of drowning under the pressure, and wants to date someone more in his own league.
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Most Helpful Girl
He sounds like a douche. He'll have the same problem in every relationship because the problem is him. He either doesn't really want a relationship in the first place or doesn't have the emotional skill set to maintain one. Just move on.