If a guy doesn't send you good morning texts?

[Anonymous]

I don't know how old this is but it goes both ways. I'm a freshman in college and my girlfriend a senior in high school. I always say goodnight even if she falls asleep on me and doesn't say it or I love you. Girls if you do that it does kinda hit us in a soft spot we look for that same goodnight and I love you. Personally I sleep a lot better when my girlfriend says it back compadres to when she falls asleep on me. So a little I'm sorry I fell asleep on you last night I love you goes a long way. Now to address good morning. As a freshman in college my earliest class allows me to sleep in till 9:30 latest 10. My girlfriend a senior in high school has to be up by 6 to get dressed eat and pick up her friend before school. I try my best to wake up every morning and text her before she leaves for school good morning and to have a great day. Or good morning I love you. Either one. However when 1.) we send it and don't get a reply back it sucks we know you at least checked your phone once for the time especially if we wake up early to text you before you wake up. We know you saw the message answer it. Chivalry works both ways. He feel kinda shitty when we don't get that response. If you're busy and can't respond say so later so we don't take it to heart. Because we all aren't macho I can't show emotion guys. A lot of us let our girlfriend see our soft side and soft spot and that stuff actually does make us sad. Just a little. 2 if we usually text you good morning if we sleep In late one day or forget text us good morning. First off it will make us smile. Second if we do it for you you can send us one too. Third it will make our day. 4 if we are always the one to say good morning and you never say it first. Or if in order to start talking during the day we need to initiate contact first and send the first text it sucks for us. We genuinely feel like then you don't care and just expect us to do that for you. Let me tell you I'm dating a girl who I always say good morning first when I can she never has once never even sends to first text of the day. Why because you expect the man to do it. It doesn't make us feel good. It's a double standard. You like when we do it you'll feel loved and appreciated return the favor to your boyfriends, husbands or guy you like because from personal experience it sucks never receiving one.

[ccp16]

I only do that once we are already officially dating. doing it before hand comes off as desperate I think. Either way, I only do it because I know girls want it. My last ex and I did not do good morning, we did good afternoon as we both agreed it was ridiculous and just wanted to be left alone that early before work lol

[Paris13]

If you Both are in a Real Relationship, then it's Normal of course @pr3ttybr0n and sometimes when Not able, that's fine too, you both are still two birds of a feather.
However, if in 'Send good morning' when just getting to know one another, that's a sign of a sure guy who is making a Big Try to make an attempt for open lines of convo to let you Know... You are on his mind this morning and no signals of things going south just Yet.
If he doesn't send one, but sends a message that day, it is his way of still hanging in there, but doing it.. His own way.
If the guy you are 'Talking to' isn't a great text tom, then you need to either get used to be put on hi spay no mind list or find someone more in store.
Good luck. xx

[hlab3]

Well, my boyfriend always texts me good morning. It's just something he does every day since we've started dating, even texting to say good night. If he doesn't, it either means he's busy, he's asleep or we had a fight and we're not talking to each other. I don't know, I don't mind it, because it's nice to get a good morning from someone special. I don't see it as a problem. I won't lie: it bothers me if he doesn't say something, because it's just a habit he has done consistently, and anything that stops a pattern throws me off. Otherwise, if it was any other guy that did that (and plenty have), it annoyed me.

[LightsOff]

No big deal at all. And if that was the case, then I would send him a couple of morning texts. See if he reciprocates. Most people with common sense would mimic it and start initiating good morning texts back.

Anyway this is one of those things that most people usually forget at a certain point. Mornings tend to be so hectic anyway and a lot of people have other stuff to think about than to send someone a text.

[Anonymous]

No, I wouldn't base it just on whether he sends good morning texts or not. Maybe he's not the type to send sweet texts and things like that.

Might be a little strange for me at first though, because pretty much every guy I've dated sent good morning/good night texts. I actually had to get used to that at first because I wasn't expecting it, but now I don't know how I'd feel going back to not getting those. It's probably fine, but yeah just takes a little adjusting.

[sp33d]

No, texting not my thing. I draw no cues from something like that, either. If it's your birthday, I'll call you and wish you a merry chri... I mean happy birthday.

Generally, though, I stay away from facebook and instachats or what ever the hell it was. Facebook is strictly work related.

[JuicyBrain]

Who cares about morning texts? I could literally setup a script that would send you "Good morning !" every morning. would it make you feel better? Wouldn't you rather he tells you when something interesting happened instead?

[Bloodymaryshesaid]

How about back in the days where you couldn't text? Like wayyy back? It's not a big deal either way. What us women need to do is get a LIFE! of our own so we won't be so concerned about frivolous matters as such.

[Anonymous]

No I wouldn't think that he does not like me just because I did not get a good morning text. I have had men who only wanted to have sex with me send me a good morning text in hopes that I would sleep with him and when it didn't work they stopped texting me

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

If i had a girlfriend or interested in some girl i would send her Good Morning text
but i don't try getting attached to females who are just friends.

[AthleticMom]

Opposites attract
so I am reading you are organized enough to text in AM
and I'm thinking he's unorganized, no time to even brush teeth... much less text anyone

[becca123]

Nearly every morning one or the other of us does it. It's sweet but not a deal breaker in any way. If he hadn't started out this way I wouldn't have even questioned it. Not any real sign at all.

[PiuBelloAmante]

i only send them after i took a girl on a date the day before, or when i wake up thinking of her

but every morning? no eventually she wouldn't even appreciate that gotta keep it special

[teawrecks]

Wouldn't be a big deal. I like them most when I don't expect them. When they become a normal thing then what makes it special?

[MarkyyG123]

Well if he had been doing it consistently and stopped that could be and usually is because he's busy or its been a rushed morning, its happened to me

[Sinister]

I do it very now and then but not often the prestige of it wears off faster than anything else I think.

[CHARismatic110]

If it was something he never did, then it wouldn't be a big deal. But if he started out doing it and suddenly didn't, I'd wonder why

[jwhit]

If that's never been her kinda thing from Day One and I know for sure she likes me then it's no big deal. If she starts doing it out of no where then I might assume she's taken interest in me as I'm the first thing on her mind when she gets up.

[RPGamr]

Kiddish in my opinion. Texting as such isn't natural for me, I prefer calling.

[Anonymous]

If I really like her then I will send her good morning texts, some days I might not, just to tone it down a bit because I do not want to come off as "anything", or overkill anything.

[ginnyweasley]

i would not be offended because i am pretty busy in the morning.

[longjohndan]

No, I never send good morning texts... ever, no matter how I feel about the person.

[sjoes006]

I never send those to my boyfriend and rarely do we send goodnight texts.

[meatballs21]

It's not a big deal! Not least of all because if he gets it wrong and sends it too early, he'll wake you up and piss you off.