So yeah I want to invite friends over including this girl. We both established we don't want to date yet but be friends. My friends want us to date but I think I'll do that and just disguise it in being a friend. I mean I want to be friends with her but... I want to ask her if she'd like to come over for a bonfire this fall, but it can't sound like a date or I might as well forget about it.
Most Helpful Girl
Just say "hey *friends name* and *friends name* and a few other people are coming over to mine for a bonfire, you're more than welcome to come too if you have nothing else to do".
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Most Helpful Guy
Ask her to come over then. If it's with other people then it's not a date.0